Talking honestly and early on helps in many ways. It: 

• Makes death a normal part of living so it doesn’t become a taboo subject.

• Ensures children learn the facts from someone trusted and familiar.

• Lessens the likelihood they’ll imagine scenarios that leave them more anxious and fearful.
• Children who aren’t given information often worry more than those who do!

• Left to their imaginations, they might think, for example, that they’re responsible for the illness or death.

• Allows them to grieve with the important adults and children in their lives. When this happens, they:

• Feel less alone or on the sidelines.
• Can learn that their emotions and those of the people around them are healthy and natural.

• Encourages open and honest conversations within the family.